The fact is that a woman will always feel more attraction for an alpha male than any other type of man.
Alpha males tend to be more masculine (e.g. more confident, assertive, driven, decisive, etc) than regular guys.
Masculine guys: His masculinity creates a natural and powerful sexual charge inside of a woman, which simply cannot be achieved - at the same intensity - with a guy who is neutral or feminine.
Neutral guy: Neither masculine, nor feminine. He's usually a nice, unassuming guy that is not the alpha male in social situations.
He's attracted to women, but doesn't have a massive drive to get to the point of sex with a woman. He usually just blends into the crowd.
Feminine guy: Behaves in a feminine way (e.g. by wearing pink, being emotional, being submissive, giggling and gossiping like a girl).
Do you need to build big muscles to be a masculine guy? Do you need to be tall?
Muscles and height do add masculinity, but they are not essential. I am not well-built and have plenty of friends who are 'natural alpha males'...most haven't lifted a dumbbell in their life.
How do I become more masculine then? Masculinity comes in various forms and is not limited to the physical.
No doubt you've met at least one alpha male in your lifetime, who didn't have big muscles or wasn't 6ft tall.
For example: Have you ever seen a small, lean man who is confident, assertive and direct? His confidence, assertiveness and direct nature are all masculine traits.
When you develop those traits, women have no choice but to become naturally attracted to you. Just like how you have no choice but to become naturally attracted to a woman's nice figure and cleavage.
Here are some more tips on being a masculine, alpha male:
Don't Make Her Think Like a Man: We as men, tend to be more logical in our thinking and women more emotional. Don't expect a woman to logically analyze her feelings. It changes the connection she has with her feminine energy.
If you are always trying talk in a 'logical-solution mode', then women will have to think like men around you. Consequently, they won't feel like much of a woman around you and it will ruin the attraction.
Here's how to include emotions into conversation, while still being a little helpful.
Her: Arrgh! I had a crappy day at work today.
You: Yeah babe? What happened?
Her: (Complains about the day).
You: Whoa...that sucks...how did it make you feel when_______?
Her: (Says something).
You: Come here.
And give her a hug. However, don't be predictable. Sometimes you should:
- Just ignore her.
- Laugh at her so she ends up laughing at herself.
- Leverage the emotional energy into passionate sex that lets her release the built-up tension.
- Behave exactly like the people who had annoyed her at work (e.g. if her boss had been ordering her around, tell her to make you a coffee after she finishes ranting).
Don't Start Behaving Like a Woman: Despite how crucial the act of 'being a man' is to maintaining attraction, many guys secretly prefer that a woman take the leading role instead.
Why? Because they are looking for a replacement mummy. Get rid of those secret thoughts, because they will surface in your behaviors and will deteriorate your relationships faster than you can say "iPods are cool."
Don't Say "I Love You" All the Time: If your woman says "I love you", simply reply with something like, "Yeah, that's my girl...come here."
Do it a soft, seductive, fatherly tone of voice and it will touch a deep part of her. Every now and then, feel free to change it to, "Yeah, love my girl" but only use the old "I love you too babe" for special occassions.
Why not? Part of being a masculine, alpha male is having the ability to choose when you react or respond. If you ever decide to tell a woman what you love about her, it should be at a time that you decide to - not just because you feel a need to reply when she says it.
Author Resource:-
Dan Bacon is the CEO of TheModernMan.com who provide dating advice for men.
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